Violence against children in the family is always amazing, especially when we see them nose to nose. The helplessness in this situation, the inability to help the child, empathy for the tiny creature that cannot defend itself – all these feelings overwhelm, when you see a father or mother, in a frenzy Loupian their child. What to do and how to help your child? First we need to help parents.
Sometimes parents beat their children just because, no reason, no reason at all. Just for wymesone evil or approval of their authoritarian rule. And in the vast majority of cases, parents beat children, so they called educational purposes – usually, the punishment for misdemeanors and neposlushaniya.
Violence in the family, children need help or parents?
Once outside the shop I saw a boy, 7 years old, crying bitterly. He quietly sobbed and no visual woman would be unable to pass by without him sympathetically. But no one passed by and the boy apparently cried alone.
I approached him and asked if he lost? He shook his head. And continued to cry. After a brief conversation, it became clear that the child is afraid of his father, afraid to go home. He was sniffling, looked back and was told that if the house Continue reading
If you die or are caring for a dying person, you may have questions about how to go through the process of dying physically and emotionally. The following information will help you to answer some questions.
The signs of death
With the approaching death of the individual may experience some physical and emotional changes, such as:
Excessive sleepiness and weakness, at the same time, periods of wakefulness reduced, quenched energy.
Changes in breathing, periods of rapid breathing followed by apnea.
Change hearing and vision, for example, a person hears and sees things that others do not notice.
Changing body temperature, ranging from very high to very low.
The emotional changes, the person is not interested in the outside world and the individual parts of everyday life, such as time and date.
A dying person may experience other symptoms depending on the disease. Talk to your doctor about what you should expect. You can also contact the programme of assistance to the terminally ill, where you will answer all questions regarding the process of dying. The more you and your loved ones will know, the more you will be prepared for this moment.
Excessive sleepiness and weakness associated with the approach of death
With the approach Continue reading
Very important for parents is knowing the rules of application of methods of education, which A. S. Makarenko called “tool touch of personality”.
All methods of education scientists psychophysiological basis, or the mechanism that operates at the subconscious level. Ignoring it may lead to unpredictable results, so parents need to visualize how they applied the method may have an impact on the consciousness and behavior of the child.
The most common methods of raising children are a positive example, story, conversation, debate, teach, exercise, encouragement and punishment.
In Soviet pedagogy was considered to be the most effective methods of persuasion — a story, a conversation, a debate, otherwise known as verbal. Trusting such a scientific recommendations parents naively believed that after same notations naughty child will certainly improve.
The children perceived tedious instructions how soul-destroying occupation, and the outer reaction “of the object of education” did not reflect internal relationships. The child may exhibit ostentatious attention, but, according to psychologists, if he looks over the top of the head of an adult, Continue reading