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the Plan-prospectus manuscripts “Children in carousel divorce” 1. Prejudices about the divorce. Can a divorce be prosperous. The science part. How to learn to divorce psychologically competently. Family problems of…

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Children's deceptions: looking for causes and preventable
For most parents, the deception of the child is perceived very painful. More recently, a kid was "innocent angel", every action reflected only real. As time passed and came the…

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Who takes care of the child after the divorce according to the Law?

 

As is known, no one can be immune from divorce. And when the former spouses share property values, they have to share something priceless — your own children. If for any reason agree “on the shore” does not work, then one parent goes to court to file a statement of claim to leave your child at home. Today we will try to understand the legal aspects accompanying the process of divorce, and the rights of each parent to determine, which side is more likely to win the process. Because of a court decision, who will remain a child after divorce, will depend on the further destiny of the younger man.

“For” and “against” in the balance

It is worth noting that after the divorce, even while maintaining a warm relationship, a normal life for all family members remain in the past. Despite the fact that each parent will have to give sufficient attention to children, the usual situation for them will change significantly. For this reason, before making your final decision, you must weigh all the “pros” and “cons”.

In fairness it should be said that the vast majority of the court takes the side of the mother. However, the interests of the child are not always taken into account. For example, after divorce Continue reading

Children’s deceptions: looking for causes and preventable

For most parents, the deception of the child is perceived very painful. More recently, a kid was “innocent angel”, every action reflected only real. As time passed and came the first negative “the fruits of growing up” – deception and lies. Emotional behavior of the child develops into the logical form of the impact on adults. Instead of “tearfully begging”, there is a habit to lie, to lie, to deceive, to cheat and to “evade”. Because there are so many interesting and want to touch everything and take, and from adults and only heard “no”, “don’t touch, “to scold”. Curiosity pushes the child to get around restrictions by using your imagination, and you receive the children a lie. Parents begin to “sound the alarm” and try to find any ways to relieve your baby from bad habits.

How to start a hoax?

Child development occurs according to the principle “from simple to complex” and people say “small children small problems, big children, big problems”. The older the child becomes, the harder it is his upbringing. The problem of deception exists at any age and, as noted by scholars, to eradicate it is simply impossible. The main thing is to understand the cause of and be able Continue reading

I’m afraid to kill her child

 

Read articles and forum, and instant tears to the eyes. I had no idea that there is such a beast – OCD. Thought I’m likewise going crazy. Thoughts to kill the baby – and that with a knife or throw out the window, or strangle is in lock – step with me. The trains – insanely afraid of the approaching train, and when you sit in it, just so relieved that everything worked out. I’m afraid to fall under the wheels or suddenly someone throw. Especially creepy when the next closest person. I want at this point definitely bothering him, and it is better to squeeze a hand or even to grab, to hold, to realize that actually I don’t want him to go down: whether to keep him around, to protect from the train, or on the contrary, purely symbolically, as though for fun, there to push (literally half a centimeter) to prove to herself that here, as I do, so I’m not afraid. The same and near highways. Not to say that these thoughts seized me entirely, not let go for a moment and really hurt to live but when it appears, it becomes very, very scary. That is, a situation, in principle, not critical, but it depresses me.

Can you describe the mechanism itself. the motives. Here comes, for example, the thought Continue reading

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