As – in autumn witnessed a conversation between two moms preschoolers. The conversation was about that, finally – that, in iusva educational services to prepare children for school.
I too was glad for parents who sincerely wish to see their children successful in school life, so that there – in school, of course, and after finishing school. Now, more than ever, competition in the labour market is known to all, she, judging by the situation in the world, “came” to us forever. The second problem – it’s varying requirements to school programs, pace of learning, knowledge, abilities and skills that the child should receive in primary school, then the principal and finally to show the socio-psychological competence of students at the school graduation.
At preschool age is laid in nature, psychologists say that begins to form the intelligence of the child in the womb. Therefore, the usefulness of early learning, perhaps, already nobody argues. But everything should be in moderation, training in the form of the game, it should be age-appropriate. All these requirements are met by training in non-state educational institution ’s School of personality development”, it is in the market of educational services in the Perm region since 1993.
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Is it possible to spoil a baby at an early age? – this question is often barks many parents. Undoubtedly, the excessive love and care for the baby, can make him ordinary egoist.
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“Who indulges the whims of your son, he destroys the great Spirit your son”. The Commandment Dazhdbog.
To love means to indulge in everything? The line of permissibility almost imperceptible, and it is difficult to determine. But, on the other hand, the lack of attention and love can be more dangerous than the excess. Of course, the child there are desires and dreams and they should try to do, if it’s not just a whim. For example, if your daughter has long dreaming about the doll, she can make such a gift. But if she’s throwing a tantrum and demands a toy – it’s already a joke.
How to distinguish an ordinary need of whim?
Scientists – psychologists, based on years of observation, brought signs, which can determine the degree needed. A century of experience shows that most spoiled children grow up where they have a lot of “guardians” and “educators”. Mother starts to scold the child for a prank, and he indulges in the “tears” Continue reading
The problem of raising children will always be relevant, because of proper education options are countless. Z. Freud at the time said that parents do, they will still raise the child properly. The reason for such a pessimistic attitude? That many parents, under the pressure of modern cultural attitudes, turn normal life into the contest, the game between parents and children. Question: who will win, and hangs in the air when parents complain about their children.
In this contest the child tries to maintain their natural existence, and the parent’s repeated attempts to enclose it in the framework of culture. Not all parents stand on the warpath. We will talk about those this situation considers the question of winning and losing. When a parent believes that if he does not make obedience from his child, he will lose, and this can damage his self-respect. The famous psychoanalyst, A. Lowen wittily named this game: “How to raise a child, not spoiling him.”
Received as a result of upbringing obedient child, with good manners, the parent receives well-deserved praise from friends, relatives and teachers. And those parents who have not coped with the task is weak, unworthy of the respect for the individual. “You let yourself twist, it sits around your neck, etc.” – hears “useless” parent. Well, who does not remember Continue reading