For most parents, the deception of the child is perceived very painful. More recently, a kid was “innocent angel”, every action reflected only real. As time passed and came the first negative “the fruits of growing up” – deception and lies. Emotional behavior of the child develops into the logical form of the impact on adults. Instead of “tearfully begging”, there is a habit to lie, to lie, to deceive, to cheat and to “evade”. Because there are so many interesting and want to touch everything and take, and from adults and only heard “no”, “don’t touch, “to scold”. Curiosity pushes the child to get around restrictions by using your imagination, and you receive the children a lie. Parents begin to “sound the alarm” and try to find any ways to relieve your baby from bad habits.
How to start a hoax?
Child development occurs according to the principle “from simple to complex” and people say “small children small problems, big children, big problems”. The older the child becomes, the harder it is his upbringing. The problem of deception exists at any age and, as noted by scholars, to eradicate it is simply impossible. The main thing is to understand the cause of and be able Continue reading
Read articles and forum, and instant tears to the eyes. I had no idea that there is such a beast – OCD. Thought I’m likewise going crazy. Thoughts to kill the baby – and that with a knife or throw out the window, or strangle is in lock – step with me. The trains – insanely afraid of the approaching train, and when you sit in it, just so relieved that everything worked out. I’m afraid to fall under the wheels or suddenly someone throw. Especially creepy when the next closest person. I want at this point definitely bothering him, and it is better to squeeze a hand or even to grab, to hold, to realize that actually I don’t want him to go down: whether to keep him around, to protect from the train, or on the contrary, purely symbolically, as though for fun, there to push (literally half a centimeter) to prove to herself that here, as I do, so I’m not afraid. The same and near highways. Not to say that these thoughts seized me entirely, not let go for a moment and really hurt to live but when it appears, it becomes very, very scary. That is, a situation, in principle, not critical, but it depresses me.
Can you describe the mechanism itself. the motives. Here comes, for example, the thought Continue reading
Many people are concerned today about the intellectual development of their children. It acquires the features of almost mass psychosis. The term “early development”, which implies it is the development of intelligence. Reached and the process of pregnancy. There was even a special “educational” programs implemented with the speakers placed at the maternal abdomen, from which emanate a special rhythmic signals that stimulate certain brain structures. In addition to “specially organized animal” the child came to be regarded as “computer”, stuffed with “programs” that need in whatever was to “enable”. Intellectual in diapers – here is a new ideal, a new generation of “king of nature”, which appropriated to itself the right to ignore its laws.
Early intellectual development . early puberty, premature aging – whether in this series some similarities? Everything in nature obeys the rhythm. She for all time. Or, and here she made a mistake? The human mind is not limited to the intellect and has many prerequisites and conditions for its development.
The development is implemented through many stages. One of them is in utero . But this is not the time for intelligence Continue reading