Very important for parents is knowing the rules of application of methods of education, which A. S. Makarenko called “tool touch of personality”.
All methods of education scientists psychophysiological basis, or the mechanism that operates at the subconscious level. Ignoring it may lead to unpredictable results, so parents need to visualize how they applied the method may have an impact on the consciousness and behavior of the child.
The most common methods of raising children are a positive example, story, conversation, debate, teach, exercise, encouragement and punishment.
In Soviet pedagogy was considered to be the most effective methods of persuasion — a story, a conversation, a debate, otherwise known as verbal. Trusting such a scientific recommendations parents naively believed that after same notations naughty child will certainly improve.
The children perceived tedious instructions how soul-destroying occupation, and the outer reaction “of the object of education” did not reflect internal relationships. The child may exhibit ostentatious attention, but, according to psychologists, if he looks over the top of the head of an adult, Continue reading
The baby grows up, and here the parents noticed that he tends to play with the children, the other ignores. And no amount of persuasion like “look what a good boy, play with him,” do not help. There are children who are very selective in communicating with peers, but there are those who know and love to communicate with everyone.
Why is this happening? What says the choice is the child of a friend or friends with certain qualities, behaviors? This is largely due to temperament and character, but the choice of the child affects his emotional development, internal problems.
So, let’s analyze the child’s choice.
Child easy to contact with all age groups. Such children are few, and if Your child falls into this category, it has a “social intelligence”, i.e. the talent of communication. He has no such problems as anxiety, fears, low self-esteem, shyness.
The child prefers to play with his peers. This is the most common category. Such behavior is natural – the level of development is similar, the interests coincide, as well as social skills.
The child loves to play with kids who are older than him. There may be several reasons: the child intellectual development ahead of their peers, Continue reading
That 52-year-old producer and TV presenter Alexey Pimanov married 37-year-old actress Olga Pogodina, it became known in February 2014.Office romance began on the set of Alexey “Three days in Odessa”. For Pimanova this third marriage, he has two sons and a daughter, Pogodina – second. For the sake of his young wife Alex this summer has arranged two weeks in a busy schedule, they went to Italy in a five star hotel on lake Garda. “We were very lucky with the weather, says “StarHit” Olga. – Not hot, +25°C We spend all of our time on the beach, it’s a waste of time even for SPA treatments and massages – these you can do in Moscow.” A couple of evenings having dinner in the coastal restaurants, both like seafood. 2. Yuri Belyaev and Tatiana Abramova
The difference in age: 27 years
The actors met in September 2013 at one of the festivals, were married in may, and in June were married. For both, it was a second marriage, have two children: a 66-year-old Yuri – daughter and son, 39-year-old Tatiana – sons. Thanks wife Belyaev loved Peter, in which she studied, although in the past he didn’t like to leave Moscow. “We Yura every weekend rewind in Petersburg, – said the actress. – Stay with friends and relatives, but if you want privacy, rents a room in the hotel…” Continue reading
Imagine that you walk on the whitest beach and feel the warmth of bright sunlight. The sea breeze refreshes your body with its cold breath. The waves swaying peacefully in the infinite expanse of everywhere and an atmosphere of peace and tranquility. But then the clouds gather, the sea begins to rage and dealt a nasty moans alarm…
Oh, how wonderful it is to bask in the comfortable bed in the morning. But it’s a Paradise of fun can’t last forever. As great as were feeling, just going to have to get up and go get ready for work/school. But maybe we should not? Maybe it’s better to have a good rest, to gather strength for the coming day? In principle, at work nothing important, you can do without me. And at school you can skip the first couple… Yes, if I sleep a bit, not anything terrible to happen. So, alarm clock, come here, and now… you die!
Know the situation? I think everyone will be able to remember more than one story about how he begged the alarm delay time for a few more minutes to enjoy wonderful bliss. The result has been a shift schedule, all had to do for a few minutes and in General, the mood during the day left much to be desired. I like the situation has become even dearer after the experiment with healthy sleep. Can read the introductory post Continue reading
If you ask: “if any of you dear parents that their children grew up a thief?” Probably would answer: “Yes God forbid!” And then you will tell the child that stealing is wrong, for it put him in prison. But after an hour or two, to the annoyance of ads for expensive cars that hit you in the midst of an interesting film, involuntarily exclaim that an honest man, and a lifetime won’t earn as much…
And then you’ll come to “spark” your friend and tell how his neighbor is well settled “drives” abroad copper wire, and have built a house in Cyprus. And the kids hear everything and wound on a mustache. How in such situation to bring honesty? How to develop native Chad hard immunity to other people’s things?
Indeed, it is difficult to understand a grown man, why are his child. which the commandment “thou shalt Not steal” was invested in the ears with very tender age, yesterday suddenly brought from kindergarten someone else’s toy. “Today he pulls the thing out of my pocket, and tomorrow what? – drain the family Bank!” And an angry parent is taken for the belt. To beat a child and scold him, not the solution. It is best to talk to him heart to heart Continue reading