Very important for parents is knowing the rules of application of methods of education, which A. S. Makarenko called “tool touch of personality”.
All methods of education scientists psychophysiological basis, or the mechanism that operates at the subconscious level. Ignoring it may lead to unpredictable results, so parents need to visualize how they applied the method may have an impact on the consciousness and behavior of the child.
The most common methods of raising children are a positive example, story, conversation, debate, teach, exercise, encouragement and punishment.
In Soviet pedagogy was considered to be the most effective methods of persuasion — a story, a conversation, a debate, otherwise known as verbal. Trusting such a scientific recommendations parents naively believed that after same notations naughty child will certainly improve.
The children perceived tedious instructions how soul-destroying occupation, and the outer reaction “of the object of education” did not reflect internal relationships. The child may exhibit ostentatious attention, but, according to psychologists, if he looks over the top of the head of an adult, Continue reading
If you ask: “if any of you dear parents that their children grew up a thief?” Probably would answer: “Yes God forbid!” And then you will tell the child that stealing is wrong, for it put him in prison. But after an hour or two, to the annoyance of ads for expensive cars that hit you in the midst of an interesting film, involuntarily exclaim that an honest man, and a lifetime won’t earn as much…
And then you’ll come to “spark” your friend and tell how his neighbor is well settled “drives” abroad copper wire, and have built a house in Cyprus. And the kids hear everything and wound on a mustache. How in such situation to bring honesty? How to develop native Chad hard immunity to other people’s things?
Indeed, it is difficult to understand a grown man, why are his child. which the commandment “thou shalt Not steal” was invested in the ears with very tender age, yesterday suddenly brought from kindergarten someone else’s toy. “Today he pulls the thing out of my pocket, and tomorrow what? – drain the family Bank!” And an angry parent is taken for the belt. To beat a child and scold him, not the solution. It is best to talk to him heart to heart Continue reading
Imagination makes our life colorful, emotional, unique, helps to move away from the usual stereotypes.
For the development of imagination invite your child to come up with a new story or some of its episode.
Let the house will be “magic wand” that you will make a secret from the child, showing their skills and creativity. First you adults use it in different situations (help the Bunny to be invisible or, on the contrary, a giant; the Gingerbread man become wooden, etc.). Over time, trained in possession of a “magic wand”, your child will begin to act: to help the heroes of the tale, to rescue them from trouble. Magic wand will help your child to create, the doing of good deeds, to dream, to develop imagination.
For the development of thinking, imagination and speech useful job for Association of two tales in one with a new storyline. It is a difficult task for you adults. After all, you need a logical place to introduce new characters into the storyline, twist, two stories, we have to come up with new content. In this case, active role play and speech, and a child’s imagination. When performing this task undoubtedly the leaders and organizers will be adults.
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