For most parents, the deception of the child is perceived very painful. More recently, a kid was “innocent angel”, every action reflected only real. As time passed and came the first negative “the fruits of growing up” – deception and lies. Emotional behavior of the child develops into the logical form of the impact on adults. Instead of “tearfully begging”, there is a habit to lie, to lie, to deceive, to cheat and to “evade”. Because there are so many interesting and want to touch everything and take, and from adults and only heard “no”, “don’t touch, “to scold”. Curiosity pushes the child to get around restrictions by using your imagination, and you receive the children a lie. Parents begin to “sound the alarm” and try to find any ways to relieve your baby from bad habits.
How to start a hoax?
Child development occurs according to the principle “from simple to complex” and people say “small children small problems, big children, big problems”. The older the child becomes, the harder it is his upbringing. The problem of deception exists at any age and, as noted by scholars, to eradicate it is simply impossible. The main thing is to understand the cause of and be able Continue reading
Violence against children in the family is always amazing, especially when we see them nose to nose. The helplessness in this situation, the inability to help the child, empathy for the tiny creature that cannot defend itself – all these feelings overwhelm, when you see a father or mother, in a frenzy Loupian their child. What to do and how to help your child? First we need to help parents.
Sometimes parents beat their children just because, no reason, no reason at all. Just for wymesone evil or approval of their authoritarian rule. And in the vast majority of cases, parents beat children, so they called educational purposes – usually, the punishment for misdemeanors and neposlushaniya.
Violence in the family, children need help or parents?
Once outside the shop I saw a boy, 7 years old, crying bitterly. He quietly sobbed and no visual woman would be unable to pass by without him sympathetically. But no one passed by and the boy apparently cried alone.
I approached him and asked if he lost? He shook his head. And continued to cry. After a brief conversation, it became clear that the child is afraid of his father, afraid to go home. He was sniffling, looked back and was told that if the house Continue reading
If you ask: “if any of you dear parents that their children grew up a thief?” Probably would answer: “Yes God forbid!” And then you will tell the child that stealing is wrong, for it put him in prison. But after an hour or two, to the annoyance of ads for expensive cars that hit you in the midst of an interesting film, involuntarily exclaim that an honest man, and a lifetime won’t earn as much…
And then you’ll come to “spark” your friend and tell how his neighbor is well settled “drives” abroad copper wire, and have built a house in Cyprus. And the kids hear everything and wound on a mustache. How in such situation to bring honesty? How to develop native Chad hard immunity to other people’s things?
Indeed, it is difficult to understand a grown man, why are his child. which the commandment “thou shalt Not steal” was invested in the ears with very tender age, yesterday suddenly brought from kindergarten someone else’s toy. “Today he pulls the thing out of my pocket, and tomorrow what? – drain the family Bank!” And an angry parent is taken for the belt. To beat a child and scold him, not the solution. It is best to talk to him heart to heart Continue reading