1) According to the sequence: the sequence of appearance of family members indicates the attitude of the young artist. Usually, the first children draw the most beloved or the most significant family member. If he forgot to paint someone – it means that with this man the child’s strained relationship. The child often portrays in the heart – so he was sure that his parents love him. Conversely, he feels abandoned and alone, if you do not have a picture of me at all.
2) composition: If the figure in the form of group photographs missing one of the family members, ask the child why he forgot it. Such incomplete portrait – serious reason to pause.
3) size: the greater the credibility of the child is the man depicted, the higher and greater will be his figure. Rejected children paint themselves as small, spoiled and may not accommodate his giant image.
4) distance: When the house is quiet, and peace, all of the characters are very close to each other. The closer they draw themselves to someone of the parents, the stronger his attachment to that person. Any item drawn between people symbolizes a barrier in the relationship between Continue reading
The problem of raising children will always be relevant, because of proper education options are countless. Z. Freud at the time said that parents do, they will still raise the child properly. The reason for such a pessimistic attitude? That many parents, under the pressure of modern cultural attitudes, turn normal life into the contest, the game between parents and children. Question: who will win, and hangs in the air when parents complain about their children.
In this contest the child tries to maintain their natural existence, and the parent’s repeated attempts to enclose it in the framework of culture. Not all parents stand on the warpath. We will talk about those this situation considers the question of winning and losing. When a parent believes that if he does not make obedience from his child, he will lose, and this can damage his self-respect. The famous psychoanalyst, A. Lowen wittily named this game: “How to raise a child, not spoiling him.”
Received as a result of upbringing obedient child, with good manners, the parent receives well-deserved praise from friends, relatives and teachers. And those parents who have not coped with the task is weak, unworthy of the respect for the individual. “You let yourself twist, it sits around your neck, etc.” – hears “useless” parent. Well, who does not remember Continue reading
The peculiarity of newborn babies that they can’t say what’s bothering them,what they lack, but only notify crying about his suffering or inconvenience. Their crying is an inborn unconditioned reflex, which is the signal for help.
Causes of crying can be a lot, and mom must know them.
So, the baby cries differently. Every mother should understand this and feel these features with your newborn baby.
1. Crying can be a signal of inconvenience . test the baby: diapers (or nappies) is already wet and irritate his skin. Crying about a whiny, incessant, may be accompanied by hiccups, as wet diapers contribute to the cooling. If your baby sleeps in a diaper overnight, the irritant can be greatly increased volume of the diaper.
The COUNCIL. Urgently baby undress, padmavati (preferably under running water) and take air baths. If diaper change and baby warmer cover, he calms down.
2. If the child is hot . he whines, throws arms and legs, his skin turns red, it may appear small red rash (diaper), may increase the temperature to 37.5.
The COUNCIL. The child is stripped naked, wiping towel soaked in room temperature water, and air baths Continue reading