Violence against children in the family is always amazing, especially when we see them nose to nose. The helplessness in this situation, the inability to help the child, empathy for the tiny creature that cannot defend itself – all these feelings overwhelm, when you see a father or mother, in a frenzy Loupian their child. What to do and how to help your child? First we need to help parents.
Sometimes parents beat their children just because, no reason, no reason at all. Just for wymesone evil or approval of their authoritarian rule. And in the vast majority of cases, parents beat children, so they called educational purposes – usually, the punishment for misdemeanors and neposlushaniya.
Violence in the family, children need help or parents?
Once outside the shop I saw a boy, 7 years old, crying bitterly. He quietly sobbed and no visual woman would be unable to pass by without him sympathetically. But no one passed by and the boy apparently cried alone.
I approached him and asked if he lost? He shook his head. And continued to cry. After a brief conversation, it became clear that the child is afraid of his father, afraid to go home. He was sniffling, looked back and was told that if the house Continue reading
I asked Light – Goddess, Julia – Miss Julie, the other girls about what interesting things I have learned in the previous training module.
A lot of that is so important for the majority of the theme of how family relationships and parenting.
I promised the Light to tell what it was valuable, so I will try to create one or even several themes, where will present different utility. If you interesting and need, then I will continue. If it turns out that not really need and not super interested, that’s OK too. I it still already know
Give small portions. One thought – one topic for discussion.
Well, here, for example, this:
As the relationship between parents affect the development and education of the child?
– Striking was the following observation: when the parents are close to each other, emotionally spend more time with each other than the patient, the patient’s condition improves. When either parent becomes more emotionally connected with the patient than with the other parent, then the patient is immediately and automatically getting worse. When parents have emotional intimacy, then they can’t choose the wrong approach to the education of the patient. Continue reading
Topic “mother’s “why?””, where on the issues associated with raising the little ones, will be answered by experienced professionals. Will print the advice of moms and dads gleaned from their piggy banks family experience.
The education of children in the family
Means of pedagogical influence
In the most General form of the means of pedagogical influence is divided into persuasion, coercion, encouragement, punishment.
There is not educational tools, suitable for all occasions. Any educational tool can be good or bad depending on specific conditions.
Each of these funds is suitable only in a certain system of education. That’s why parents and educators have an obligation to seriously consider what educational impact they can apply in each case.
Young children are very obedient, and every suggestion adults, especially parents and caregivers, usually accept unquestioningly.
Becoming older and claiming some independence, they sometimes have a resistance to the order of the parents. In such cases it is advisable to apply persuasion, to explain to the child why he should do as he proposes.
If persuasion fails, it is necessary Continue reading