For most parents, the deception of the child is perceived very painful. More recently, a kid was “innocent angel”, every action reflected only real. As time passed and came the first negative “the fruits of growing up” – deception and lies. Emotional behavior of the child develops into the logical form of the impact on adults. Instead of “tearfully begging”, there is a habit to lie, to lie, to deceive, to cheat and to “evade”. Because there are so many interesting and want to touch everything and take, and from adults and only heard “no”, “don’t touch, “to scold”. Curiosity pushes the child to get around restrictions by using your imagination, and you receive the children a lie. Parents begin to “sound the alarm” and try to find any ways to relieve your baby from bad habits.
How to start a hoax?
Child development occurs according to the principle “from simple to complex” and people say “small children small problems, big children, big problems”. The older the child becomes, the harder it is his upbringing. The problem of deception exists at any age and, as noted by scholars, to eradicate it is simply impossible. The main thing is to understand the cause of and be able Continue reading
Violence against children in the family is always amazing, especially when we see them nose to nose. The helplessness in this situation, the inability to help the child, empathy for the tiny creature that cannot defend itself – all these feelings overwhelm, when you see a father or mother, in a frenzy Loupian their child. What to do and how to help your child? First we need to help parents.
Sometimes parents beat their children just because, no reason, no reason at all. Just for wymesone evil or approval of their authoritarian rule. And in the vast majority of cases, parents beat children, so they called educational purposes – usually, the punishment for misdemeanors and neposlushaniya.
Violence in the family, children need help or parents?
Once outside the shop I saw a boy, 7 years old, crying bitterly. He quietly sobbed and no visual woman would be unable to pass by without him sympathetically. But no one passed by and the boy apparently cried alone.
I approached him and asked if he lost? He shook his head. And continued to cry. After a brief conversation, it became clear that the child is afraid of his father, afraid to go home. He was sniffling, looked back and was told that if the house Continue reading
The characters sometimes seem so complicated and incomprehensible that all of their facets and subtleties parents sometimes are not able to solve throughout life. And it’s bad. Because ignorance traits is a lack of understanding of the child and the inability to find him approach.
Especially difficult to account for in the education of children who do not wish to contact with parents. And the reason for this becomes clear for the first time only today, thanks to the discoveries in the human psyche, made system-vector psychology Yuri Burlan.
The education of children: a portrait
A child who does not hear his parents, a child who does not Express any of your own thoughts. Child, behind an impenetrable mask which does not understand what he was thinking. How to deal with this? What language to speak? How loud to shout, to finally be heard?
But nothing helps. Talk to him succeeded with great difficulty, his interests and Hobbies are not clear. It seems that nothing he’s not interested, and the parents and does cause contempt.
There are no friends. The teachers at the school is suspected delay in development. However, if you look closely, you can see the obvious inconsistency in extraordinary manner of thinking and ability to seek Continue reading