How to raise children according to the rules?
  Very important for parents is knowing the rules of application of methods of education, which A. S. Makarenko called "tool touch of personality". All methods of education scientists psychophysiological…

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System-vector psychology. What to do if your husband has a child?
  Violence against children in the family is always amazing, especially when we see them nose to nose. The helplessness in this situation, the inability to help the child, empathy…

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How to decipher and analyze the figure of the child

 

1) According to the sequence: the sequence of appearance of family members indicates the attitude of the young artist. Usually, the first children draw the most beloved or the most significant family member. If he forgot to paint someone – it means that with this man the child’s strained relationship. The child often portrays in the heart – so he was sure that his parents love him. Conversely, he feels abandoned and alone, if you do not have a picture of me at all.

2) composition: If the figure in the form of group photographs missing one of the family members, ask the child why he forgot it. Such incomplete portrait – serious reason to pause.

3) size: the greater the credibility of the child is the man depicted, the higher and greater will be his figure. Rejected children paint themselves as small, spoiled and may not accommodate his giant image.

4) distance: When the house is quiet, and peace, all of the characters are very close to each other. The closer they draw themselves to someone of the parents, the stronger his attachment to that person. Any item drawn between people symbolizes a barrier in the relationship between Continue reading

Ten signs needed for your child

 

Is it possible to spoil a baby at an early age? – this question is often barks many parents. Undoubtedly, the excessive love and care for the baby, can make him ordinary egoist.

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“Who indulges the whims of your son, he destroys the great Spirit your son”. The Commandment Dazhdbog.

To love means to indulge in everything? The line of permissibility almost imperceptible, and it is difficult to determine. But, on the other hand, the lack of attention and love can be more dangerous than the excess. Of course, the child there are desires and dreams and they should try to do, if it’s not just a whim. For example, if your daughter has long dreaming about the doll, she can make such a gift. But if she’s throwing a tantrum and demands a toy – it’s already a joke.

How to distinguish an ordinary need of whim?

Scientists – psychologists, based on years of observation, brought signs, which can determine the degree needed. A century of experience shows that most spoiled children grow up where they have a lot of “guardians” and “educators”. Mother starts to scold the child for a prank, and he indulges in the “tears” Continue reading

Classification of children’s fears

 

These fears arise acutely in response to emotional distress. In a fit of fear, the child is torn, screaming, constantly talking about the object or phenomenon, which scared believe in this fear, imagining it to be bright and colorful, up to hallucinations. Between bouts of fear, the child almost healthy.

4-year-old girl was afraid of the doctor . Periodically I think back on it, she screamed, cried, refused to attend the clinic. Another approximately at the same age were afraid of the spider and at the sight of the insect screamed, afraid to sleep, demanded that the mother bedtime carefully shook out the blanket, because there might be spiders.

Depending on the child’s personality neurotic fears are transformed into overvalued fears. These children fear dominates the mind, the child is difficult to dissuasion. The younger children (7-9 years) among overvalued fears should highlight the “ fear of the school “: the fear of failure, fear of punishment for breaches of discipline, fear of strict teachers, which can lead to failures to attend school.

In pre-puberty age (10— 11 years) in the structure overvalued fears advocates fear for life and health. Such children are afraid Continue reading

Healthy child - happy parents
Is the world a substance that can restore physical health, able to lift up his soul, help him to become a tolerant, kind, loving. This substance - HONEY! Dear Mom…

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If a child steals..."
  What feelings does a parent knowing that their child is stealing? Shock. Anger. Confusion. Fear. Someone, of course, does not philosophizing, whipping child and will count on this educational…

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