Violence against children in the family is always amazing, especially when we see them nose to nose. The helplessness in this situation, the inability to help the child, empathy for the tiny creature that cannot defend itself – all these feelings overwhelm, when you see a father or mother, in a frenzy Loupian their child. What to do and how to help your child? First we need to help parents.
Sometimes parents beat their children just because, no reason, no reason at all. Just for wymesone evil or approval of their authoritarian rule. And in the vast majority of cases, parents beat children, so they called educational purposes – usually, the punishment for misdemeanors and neposlushaniya.
Violence in the family, children need help or parents?
Once outside the shop I saw a boy, 7 years old, crying bitterly. He quietly sobbed and no visual woman would be unable to pass by without him sympathetically. But no one passed by and the boy apparently cried alone.
I approached him and asked if he lost? He shook his head. And continued to cry. After a brief conversation, it became clear that the child is afraid of his father, afraid to go home. He was sniffling, looked back and was told that if the house Continue reading
Is it possible to spoil a baby at an early age? – this question is often barks many parents. Undoubtedly, the excessive love and care for the baby, can make him ordinary egoist.
Like it or not.?
“Who indulges the whims of your son, he destroys the great Spirit your son”. The Commandment Dazhdbog.
To love means to indulge in everything? The line of permissibility almost imperceptible, and it is difficult to determine. But, on the other hand, the lack of attention and love can be more dangerous than the excess. Of course, the child there are desires and dreams and they should try to do, if it’s not just a whim. For example, if your daughter has long dreaming about the doll, she can make such a gift. But if she’s throwing a tantrum and demands a toy – it’s already a joke.
How to distinguish an ordinary need of whim?
Scientists – psychologists, based on years of observation, brought signs, which can determine the degree needed. A century of experience shows that most spoiled children grow up where they have a lot of “guardians” and “educators”. Mother starts to scold the child for a prank, and he indulges in the “tears” Continue reading
The peculiarity of newborn babies that they can’t say what’s bothering them,what they lack, but only notify crying about his suffering or inconvenience. Their crying is an inborn unconditioned reflex, which is the signal for help.
Causes of crying can be a lot, and mom must know them.
So, the baby cries differently. Every mother should understand this and feel these features with your newborn baby.
1. Crying can be a signal of inconvenience . test the baby: diapers (or nappies) is already wet and irritate his skin. Crying about a whiny, incessant, may be accompanied by hiccups, as wet diapers contribute to the cooling. If your baby sleeps in a diaper overnight, the irritant can be greatly increased volume of the diaper.
The COUNCIL. Urgently baby undress, padmavati (preferably under running water) and take air baths. If diaper change and baby warmer cover, he calms down.
2. If the child is hot . he whines, throws arms and legs, his skin turns red, it may appear small red rash (diaper), may increase the temperature to 37.5.
The COUNCIL. The child is stripped naked, wiping towel soaked in room temperature water, and air baths Continue reading