Violence against children in the family is always amazing, especially when we see them nose to nose. The helplessness in this situation, the inability to help the child, empathy for the tiny creature that cannot defend itself – all these feelings overwhelm, when you see a father or mother, in a frenzy Loupian their child. What to do and how to help your child? First we need to help parents.
Sometimes parents beat their children just because, no reason, no reason at all. Just for wymesone evil or approval of their authoritarian rule. And in the vast majority of cases, parents beat children, so they called educational purposes – usually, the punishment for misdemeanors and neposlushaniya.
Violence in the family, children need help or parents?
Once outside the shop I saw a boy, 7 years old, crying bitterly. He quietly sobbed and no visual woman would be unable to pass by without him sympathetically. But no one passed by and the boy apparently cried alone.
I approached him and asked if he lost? He shook his head. And continued to cry. After a brief conversation, it became clear that the child is afraid of his father, afraid to go home. He was sniffling, looked back and was told that if the house Continue reading
Imagine that you walk on the whitest beach and feel the warmth of bright sunlight. The sea breeze refreshes your body with its cold breath. The waves swaying peacefully in the infinite expanse of everywhere and an atmosphere of peace and tranquility. But then the clouds gather, the sea begins to rage and dealt a nasty moans alarm…
Oh, how wonderful it is to bask in the comfortable bed in the morning. But it’s a Paradise of fun can’t last forever. As great as were feeling, just going to have to get up and go get ready for work/school. But maybe we should not? Maybe it’s better to have a good rest, to gather strength for the coming day? In principle, at work nothing important, you can do without me. And at school you can skip the first couple… Yes, if I sleep a bit, not anything terrible to happen. So, alarm clock, come here, and now… you die!
Know the situation? I think everyone will be able to remember more than one story about how he begged the alarm delay time for a few more minutes to enjoy wonderful bliss. The result has been a shift schedule, all had to do for a few minutes and in General, the mood during the day left much to be desired. I like the situation has become even dearer after the experiment with healthy sleep. Can read the introductory post Continue reading
Topic “mother’s “why?””, where on the issues associated with raising the little ones, will be answered by experienced professionals. Will print the advice of moms and dads gleaned from their piggy banks family experience.
The education of children in the family
Means of pedagogical influence
In the most General form of the means of pedagogical influence is divided into persuasion, coercion, encouragement, punishment.
There is not educational tools, suitable for all occasions. Any educational tool can be good or bad depending on specific conditions.
Each of these funds is suitable only in a certain system of education. That’s why parents and educators have an obligation to seriously consider what educational impact they can apply in each case.
Young children are very obedient, and every suggestion adults, especially parents and caregivers, usually accept unquestioningly.
Becoming older and claiming some independence, they sometimes have a resistance to the order of the parents. In such cases it is advisable to apply persuasion, to explain to the child why he should do as he proposes.
If persuasion fails, it is necessary Continue reading