Violence against children in the family is always amazing, especially when we see them nose to nose. The helplessness in this situation, the inability to help the child, empathy for the tiny creature that cannot defend itself – all these feelings overwhelm, when you see a father or mother, in a frenzy Loupian their child. What to do and how to help your child? First we need to help parents.
Sometimes parents beat their children just because, no reason, no reason at all. Just for wymesone evil or approval of their authoritarian rule. And in the vast majority of cases, parents beat children, so they called educational purposes – usually, the punishment for misdemeanors and neposlushaniya.
Violence in the family, children need help or parents?
Once outside the shop I saw a boy, 7 years old, crying bitterly. He quietly sobbed and no visual woman would be unable to pass by without him sympathetically. But no one passed by and the boy apparently cried alone.
I approached him and asked if he lost? He shook his head. And continued to cry. After a brief conversation, it became clear that the child is afraid of his father, afraid to go home. He was sniffling, looked back and was told that if the house Continue reading
I asked Light – Goddess, Julia – Miss Julie, the other girls about what interesting things I have learned in the previous training module.
A lot of that is so important for the majority of the theme of how family relationships and parenting.
I promised the Light to tell what it was valuable, so I will try to create one or even several themes, where will present different utility. If you interesting and need, then I will continue. If it turns out that not really need and not super interested, that’s OK too. I it still already know
Give small portions. One thought – one topic for discussion.
Well, here, for example, this:
As the relationship between parents affect the development and education of the child?
– Striking was the following observation: when the parents are close to each other, emotionally spend more time with each other than the patient, the patient’s condition improves. When either parent becomes more emotionally connected with the patient than with the other parent, then the patient is immediately and automatically getting worse. When parents have emotional intimacy, then they can’t choose the wrong approach to the education of the patient. Continue reading
Is it possible to spoil a baby at an early age? – this question is often barks many parents. Undoubtedly, the excessive love and care for the baby, can make him ordinary egoist.
Like it or not.?
“Who indulges the whims of your son, he destroys the great Spirit your son”. The Commandment Dazhdbog.
To love means to indulge in everything? The line of permissibility almost imperceptible, and it is difficult to determine. But, on the other hand, the lack of attention and love can be more dangerous than the excess. Of course, the child there are desires and dreams and they should try to do, if it’s not just a whim. For example, if your daughter has long dreaming about the doll, she can make such a gift. But if she’s throwing a tantrum and demands a toy – it’s already a joke.
How to distinguish an ordinary need of whim?
Scientists – psychologists, based on years of observation, brought signs, which can determine the degree needed. A century of experience shows that most spoiled children grow up where they have a lot of “guardians” and “educators”. Mother starts to scold the child for a prank, and he indulges in the “tears” Continue reading